Sometimes we all want change. We don’t like what we have created, yes, we create everything, but we struggle to take responsibility for creating it ourselves. We use blame to justify our position we feel we are stuck in and fester in pain because of it, not believing we can change everything.
Sometimes we are desperate for change. How can we even start to change? With fear, we can stop our powerful change happening as we do not want to make any changes. It would mean us speaking, up, stepping out into the spotlight, upsetting people or thinking we maybe judged or abandoned.
We sit in fear, just waiting, hoping that we don’t have to do anything, praying that the change just comes itself! without us having to do a thing! Sounds great doesn’t it, but we need to put the action in to go with our wishes and desires to create the new! It takes balls and it takes effort.
I have said so many times myself, when i have money, when i move, when i get a car, when i am healed, when i break up from my relationship, when i loose weight, when i am confident i can do that talk, instead of doing the talk and understanding that we are already everything we wish to be, we just have to take that leap of faith and try. Taking risks and going for it. Its ok to fall over. The trick is to learn how to keep getting up again and back into the arena. Now that is inspirational against the odds and on our own backs. Sometimes we may never receive the approval we desire from others but when we keep growing and moving forward we learn that we only need our own love. We are the masters of our ships. We can sail it into the beautiful sunrise and rainbows or we can sail it into the deep dark stormy seas. Choose wisely.
Whatever our excuse, and it is an excuse, we must realise that in order to open up the new door we must see that we must shut the old door first. Shutting the door is powerful. Its scary. Its huge. We sit for so long thinking about it, having conversations in our head, but not in reality!
Sitting on the sofa and thinking everything will happen on its own, is not going to work. Procrastination is the toughest act we can do to ourselves and we put ourselves in groundhog day going around and round in circles and falling deeper and deeper into suffering, pain, regret, depression, self doubt and basically talking ourselves out of who we really are and what we really desire. Feeling failure daily.
We come to this planet as souls in a human body having a spiritual experience in human form. Its tough, but only if we think in a negative way or buy into fear. If we see ourselves with love and make decisions through love then we can shine in every way possible. Beyond our wildest dreams. Do we truly want the best for ourselves. Our we our own best friend. Do we fully support ourselves? As we must do this first in order for others to do the same.
I spent many years playing it small and then allowing others to keep me small and trample all over me. I attracted all the wrong people into my life and created so much pain and suffering. I believed i was a victim, but that was not the truth. It was my experience through fog coated lenses. Thinking the worst, believing the worst and then accepting the worst as that was what i truly thought i deserved.
Then i woke up! I have come a long way! it has been the greatest experience of my life to go from one end of the pole to the other and each day i am still working on my dreams and desires and i fully believe and know that everything will happen as i intend it to.
I have shut so many doors in my life and i thank God everyday that he helped me. I have kicked so many doors open and i am so proud of myself for always finding a way through so many challenges and never ever giving up.
With every challenge we grow to understand that in fact they are not challenges they are gifts from our souls to show us who we truly are and to find the truth in our lives. All change is great. It may not seem like it at the time but they are stepping stones to take us to where we need to be.
I am so grateful for so much. I have learned to finally shut the door on everything that i created from a lower vibration and fear. I no longer go back, i just accept that is what i did. I do not cling to the pain anymore or blame others. I just set myself free. Its amazing to just take responsibility and forgive others and just step forward into the light and the love of ourselves and our creator.
Its hugely satisfying and powerful to fully now live in the present and expect amazing things and only accept amazing things. That is when we truly find peace of mind body and soul when we see our truth and come from dis ease to vibrant health and happiness.
Fear can keep us stuck in the same place for months or even years. Living the life that we detest will only create more heartache for you and stop you from living the life of your dreams. We are all taught to fear the unknown and the what ifs. Its easy to re wire our thought patterns and when we do it really does change your life forever!
How about changing our thoughts and patterns and feelings to feel that the ‘what ifs’ are amazing instead of doom and gloom? All it takes is a conscious decision to wish to change and to focus on creating that.
To choose each day that you are leaping forward, with no excuses, and closing the door you so want to and then walking towards the door you desire. Do we all know what we desire? as if we don’t then a new door cannot be created for you to open.
Unless we stop moaning about what we don’t want and truly face our fears we cannot be happy and at peace living the life of our dreams. Its truly understanding that dreams are not something that are never going to happen, our dreams are the whispers of our souls that are guiding us to what we truly came here to create.
We are braver that we think, stronger than we look, more talented than we can imagine and bigger than the brightest star! we just have to believe it and go for it!
Wake up today and walk forward in the direction of your desires. Health, happiness, Success is all there for each and every one of us we just have to close the door we no longer want to open up each day, learn to feel safe in the dark corridors until that bright shining door illuminates and opens up everything you have ever dreamt of! We create it all, with our thoughts and feelings. Remember with every thought, with every prayer, with every loving thought you are stepping into your perfect life!